Have you ever just sat there and thought “ugh, I miss that person so much.” Yeah? me too. There’s this one person in particular that I’m always missing. She means a lot to me and I hate the thought of not being able to see her. This means that I worry about her a lot which sucks because I hate worrying but it’s what humans do. I understand that it’s natural but it doesn’t always feel like it. Get me? Good. Anyway, as some of you may know about me, I have difficulties with being able to comprehend the fact that I can’t always do everything that I want to do. It sucks, but I have to be able to deal with it.
Missing someone is all about feeling like a part of yourself has disappeared and you don’t like the idea that you are unable to have it back. A person naturally misses someone in life that has meaning to them once they go away for a while. Ultimately, this means that the person in question usually finds it difficult to cope during this period of time because of the fact that they don’t like being away from their loved ones.
There isn’t really much a person is able to do to get ‘over’ this. Like a lot of my other pieces, you just have to push on through. Yeah, there will be times where you’re at the point where you miss someone so much to the point where seeing them is the only thing that will make you feel better. But, there might not always be a way to get to that person.
In life, you have to learn to bite the bullet and deal with these things, unfortunately. We also have to learn that it’s risky to put all your eggs in one basket. You have to be able to find happiness within yourself otherwise you will struggle to be truly happy in life. I got stuck in that issue in life where I was not able to find happiness in myself because I had found it within someone else… I lost that person which caused me to lose it completely and break down. Read more about it in “my first heartbreak” Here, you will learn about how I struggled with losing someone very special in my life and how I got through it.
There is always a way to get through the “missing someone stage” as long as you are able to find something that allows you to be happy that doesn’t involve that one person. Perhaps finding a hobby or pursuing one that you used to have when the person in question is away from you. This is a good way to love yourself and get through being more alone than you usually are.
Yugen – An emotional response about the universe too deep to put into words.